“Everything is pure to those whose hearts are pure. But nothing is pure to those who are corrupt and unbelieving, because their minds and consciences are defiled. Such people claim they know God, but they deny him by the way they live. They are despicable and disobedient, worthless for doing anything good.” (Titus 1:15-16)
Paul is blunt. Should you read any of the Epistles, you will realise he isn’t one for mollycoddling, but everything said is said in love. This is only my intention with what shall follow. If your pride is going to cause you to feel anger towards evaluating your behaviour in the light of Christ, you may want to pray about that. I’m quite serious. There’s no place for self or pride in Christianity, none of us are perfect nor are we expected to be.
Titus was an assistant of Paul’s, left to steward a young church on the island of Crete. As news of public discord in the church spread, Paul advised Titus on the selection of elders, teaching of doctrines, ideal christian characteristics and the significance of leading a Christian life in the world around us. The book of Titus is three chapters so I’d recommend you just read all of it in one go and meditate on the messages of “self-control” (2:1), “love and patience” (2:2).
When Paul says “everything is pure to those whose hearts are pure” (1:15), he isn’t saying only the perfect are going to lead good lives. Far from that, in Romans 7 & 8 Paul laments his imperfections “It seems to be a fact of life that when I want to do right, I inevitably do what is wrong” (Romans 7:21-25). But as Paul exhorts “Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin? Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord.” When we know and love and live in Jesus Christ, God sees us through Jesus’ purity and unless we consciously turn our hearts back to sin, to evil and a life lesser than that of the Christian, we will always be pure in heart, hiccups or otherwise.
Paul, understandably, is angry with the church of Crete. They “rebel”, “engage in useless talk and deceive people” (1:10). The problem with this is that being church leaders they misuse and dishonour their authority, “They must be silenced. By their wrong teaching, they have already turned whole families away from the truth” (1:11). You may know God, go to church on a Sunday, you may even go to two services, sing in the worship band and give all your money away but what do your actions really say? Did you come to church having “spent the night at your boyfriends”, perhaps you’re economical with the truth or only tolerate and accept people whose opinions are in line with yours? Does this sound like the life of freedom your God has given you through Jesus Christ? Don’t deny God “by the way you live” (1:16). Beyond taking the concept of repentance for granted, you’re kidding yourself if you think your entry into heaven will still be guaranteed off of your church attendance or some good deeds. Ask yourself and you’ll find that you know better.
The concept of repentance is one of full and complete transformation towards something so much better, it is impossible to turn to a complete life of God and still actively live in habitual sin. Do you think God wants half your attention or that until you give Him your all your relationship is going to be strained? As I said no one is perfect, even people who habitually sin can be trying to pray against it but there is a difference between that and the person who continues on in justification of what they’re doing, things that the Lord their God has communicated they ought not to do. What’s so great about earthly pleasures when through Christ we get God? We actually get to live and buss jokes and debate and hold and see our Creator, but you’d put a barrier between that by not waiting until marriage for sex?
Evaluate guys. The feelings we get of conviction are only ever there to lead to repentance. Any time you feel a prolonged sense of “ah man I messed up” and that feeling just can’t be shaken and leads to further despair, that isn’t of God. Conviction, good; condemnation, bad. No one wants that – not God, not the apostles, not your family, but if people really love you they have a responsibility to “rebuke them as sternly as necessary to make them strong in the faith” (1:13). God gives us ways to live because those allow us to get the most our lives have to offer, not because He felt like just listing off some rules. Read the word, meditate on it and live it.
God bless x